Family

I am just so hurt and furious. My dad had to have a large bowel resection on Tuesday because part of his colon had become necrotic. Well, blondie (his daughter who is 2 yrs younger than my mom) was there. Granted, I get that is his kid, but the fact of the matter is she is trying to take over, trying to take my place in comforting my mom, buying my child's affection, and being manipulative. I hate that woman, my mom thought it would be cute to try and get me and her to have a relationship, NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. I can't stand the ground that woman walks on, she has done nothing but cause problems, drama, and hurt my whole life, and yet my mom still associates with her. She thinks that she is better than everyone else, tries to take over, has caused problems with my family ever since I can remember, and yet my mom still speaks to her! I don't get it, as long as she is around, I doubt I will come around. I don't want my kids around her, I don't want to be around her. My mom is taking her side yet again, choosing her, and I gave my mom a choice, it's either her or me. I will not be subjected to her and her manipulations, neither will my kids. I wish that my mom would have never started speaking to her again, our life was better when she wasn't in it. Family is nothing, and she isn't family. My family is my parents and husband and kids. That's all I need, and if they choose her over me, then I will only have my husband and kids. She is nothing to me.